Ep 143: Shame, People Pleasing, Fawning and our Kids

Written By Helena Bradbury

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In this episode Cath shares an anecdote from her own life about how something her kids wanted to do triggered shame and the desire to people please and what happened. She talks about people pleasing and fawning and the actual nature of people pleasing and what it is really about.

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